What would you do…

…..(dedicated especially to Sis Erni….)

WHAT WOULD YOU DO….

 * when you have to drag your feet to the office every morning

* when you just dont feel that you belong to the company anymore

* when your bosses start picking on you

* when your contributions are no longer an issue to your employer

* when you are refrained to go out when your jobscope is supposedly to get sales

* when your position is made redundant

* when you are questioned on how you get to use your jobtitle …(padahal that jobtitle was given to you in your letter of offer…hello0000 aku tak paham daaaa)

* when your phone calls and emails are being tap and screened!…oohhh come on! enuf is enuf..give her a break la..

Get the F*** out of that place Girl..

You are still young and talented.  I have experienced it.  It was a jump I had to take.  You get to a certain stage where you know that to go too far down one road would be a little too disrespectful to yourself and your soul darling.  So it was as happy as it was painful; let us say that…Beb…apa tunggu lagi….go get yourself together and go on with a vengeance.  You can’t keep harping on that stinking tree that fell on you.  Insyallah…you will have no regrets and believe me…you will get a better pastures out there.

Let’s us go Singapore end of the month Beb…hooray…(aaah…i felt sleepy after the massage session and the blink blink…nite, nite…heee)

Coming March!

I’m so00 excited coming March! 

* Simply because….I can finally starts planning for my cute little office.  The signage, the chilli red sofas, the carpet, the telephone line and not forgetting the wi-fi for friends to lepak…sounds good huh..

 * Simply because….My birthday falls in March!…another great year to venture…insyallah..

*  Simply because….I am planning to install 1 unit of my smartpool at parent’s house…should be great news for my nieces la tu!…Didnt break the news to them yet not even to my dear parents…surprise! surprise!

*  Simple becasue…I have signed up again for 2 years for work out, yoga and sauna sessions…despite slimming and massage sessions that I have signed up last year waiting to be utilised throughout this year…the challenge now is to drag my feet to start doing it!

*  Simply because….I will be one of those many who wants to exercise our rights and vote for the coming election.   Action speaks louder people.

Dear Allah, may all plans be blessed by YOU, insyallah.  Amin.

   

Sigh..

I cant sleep and as usual I did some reading and came across this article which attracted my attention.   It was about a wife who found out that her husband is a male prostitute….(nau zubillahi minzalik)

 I wish I knew what makes a happy marriage.  Some make it; some don’t.  Other than those who marry just for the sake of marrying, I don’t  think anyone takes it lightly – because if it fails, it’s gut-wrenching.  No one explains that to you when you are standing at the altar.

Every marriage has its fair share of problems that we don’t air in the open.  Whenever I get really envious of someone else’s relationship, I remind myself of that….only the chosen ones will be tested.

Holiday is over..

I am glad, CNY holidays are over.

Life and business are back as usual…but I still cant get hold my new office as yet…1st. March perhaps.

I attended Amin’s book launch last Saturday night with Kak Dee, my lovely Sis Norai and Marshitah. Despite the heavy rain in Subang , I managed to pick my sis up and waited for Marshitah before we picked up Kak Dee and we managed to arrive slightly on time.

Launch was simple but warmth.  I was at ease and enjoyed myself as though it was part of the family.   Thanks to all the Young and Upcoming “Friendly” Writers for the autograph signing especially those for my cute lil’ niece.

Look forward to your next project Bro!

DICTIONARY OF DATING

Happy Valentine’s Day all darlings…(I know its a lil too late though).   I picked up these articles on my flight back….something light and fun to read for the lovey dovey couples and unsuspecting singleton out there.

*   Before marriage, a man yearns for the woman he loves.  After marriage, the “Y” becomes silent.

*   A little boy asked his father, “Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?” and the father replied, “I dont know, I’m still paying for it.

*  Words to live by  :  Do not argue with a spouce who is packing your parachute.

*  Marriage is grand – and divorce is at least 100 grand.

*  Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you say.  After marriage, he will fall asleep before you finish.

DICTIONARY OF DATING

Dating  :   The process of spending enormous amounts of money, time and energy to get better acquainted with a person whom you don’t especially like in the present and will learn to like a lot less in the future.

Easy   :   A term used to describe a woman who has the morale of a man

Eye Contact  :   A method utilised by a single woman to communicate to a man that she is interested in him.  Despite being advised to do so, many women have difficulty looking a man directly in the eyes, not necessarily due to the shyness, but usually due to the fact that a woman’s eyes are not located in her chest.

Friend   :   A member of the opposite sex who has some flaw which makes sleeping with him/her totally unappealing.

Indifference   :   A woman’s feeling toward a man that is interpreted by the man as “playing hard to get”

Irritating habits :  what the endearing little qualities that initially attract two people to each other turn into after a few months together

Sober   :   A condition in which it is almost impossible to fall in love.

Law of relativity  :   How attractive a given person appears to be is directly proportionate to how unattractive your date is.

mmm…

Buang masa…

Gosh,  it is already 12.41am, 8th. February and I doubt I am able to get hold of my new office key by 12 noon tomorrow. 

It is so frustrating when things aren’t going as per plan….I hate CNY holiday this year.  I have spent whole day at home wasting my bloody time watching movies, facebook-ing and eating and eating and eating!  (teringat kata my cute lil niece…”all I wanna do is to eat, play and sleep..well that’s the only way for me to put on weight”  hehehe tengoklah tu my anak buah terlebih vain dari Untie-nya.).  

I just cant wait for this festivity thing to end….urrrggghhh! Eh…btw…I received a Gong Xi Fa Chai wishes from Anche in Bali….(macam dia terasa jer I wanted to kacau him soon) ek…mmmmm.

Aduh…

Aduh..duh…dont know why I have this sudden urge to go for  diving and  its 1.01am hah! 

I miss my diving gear, I miss my dive buddies, I miss my dive masters, I miss the islands – Bunaken, Sipadan, Perhentian, I miss the island boys, I miss the corals, I miss the fishes, I miss the simple life…I  miss all about diving.

….. SCUBA DIVE…you will be in my to-d0-list soon! Insyallah. Bali next? Gonna text by buddy Anche then!  Ciao!

CNY

CNY…I just cant wait to get over it ASAP.  According to the Lunar Year…CNY starts today.  and I was told that the Chinese believes that you cant move into your new office or shift into your new house just before the new year.  ”Not good for your business” said my tarrotcard friend and therefore, it left me with no choice but to start moving into my office on Friday, the 8th of February which is the 4th. day of the Lunar Year. 

I cant start my construction work for the pool in cyberjaya simply because spareparts shops are already close for CNY… (99.8% of my swimming pool parts suppliers are Chinese).  My groceries shop will also close until next week Tuesday.

I remembered talking to Faizan Khan (my Smartpool principal) over a brief meeting in DesaKudalari today that it is wiser to start our activities next week.

Well, well, well…whether we like it or not, we have to agree that the economy in this country is actually controlled by the Chinese.

~teringat my statement with Aina and Kak Dee over coffee at the Apartment yesterday, “though I am half chinese, chinese man does not turned my on at all” ~tersengih~.

    

Choices in Life

~Kirim aku…malaikat mu, agar ku tak sepi berada di sini…dan…di dunia ini….aku tak mahu sendiri…~

Somewhere in life, we were given choices

But there are times, we were not given any choices

however,  it is up to us to choose which path to go

we do make mistake at times

but it is all about how we take it from there

one thing I have learnt…experiences in life - be it the ups and downs – have turned us to become a better person,

a wiser person each day and see things in a different perspectives.  remember…not many were chosen  to experience it.

we are the chosen ones!

Thank you God for today you have allowed me to share these experiences with Aina and Kak Dee…we had a great times sharing our feelings and experiences…6 hours is too short heh…and Yes Kak Dee….we should proceed with the NZ plans seriously…~aku tak mau sendiri dong~…will contact David OY too ek..

…and watch out for the 3 ladies photos in KakD’s photo gallery soon!.

I’m back…

Hey there all darlings…thank you for still being there visiting my baby Lunamaya.
To Deo, Radhiah, Kak Dee, Puan Lat, Kak Rose and others including those who prefer to remain as “silent readers” …I love you guys for keeping me going.

 My apology for not being able to update my Lunamaya for almost 4 months now (dei darlings baru 2 months la from my last postings…isk….~jeling to Deo, Kak Dee, Puan Lat and Radiah~  tapi…phew!…rindu giler dong and there’s a lot of stories and progress that I could not share with you guys throughout that 4 months and not forgetting my takziah to Abang DiamondDreamers.  Allah loves her more than we do…Al-fatihah.   I am glad that I get to meet you at your house the other day and I have been reading your updates eversince and you know what…I just cant stop crying reading it.  Please dont stop writing ya.

So, all darlings….”…..HERE I AM BABY….SIGNED, SEALED, DELIVERED….I’M YOURS…..”…adus feels like dancing pulak…heh…and YES! I am back and will be back writing from time to time …I promise…~angkat tangan~